Tuesday, November 29, 2011

A King Family Thanksgiving

          In the very early hours of Thanksgiving morning, before even going to sleep, I was walking my Toby and reflecting on the beauty of the starry sky. That was the beginning of my Thanksgiving Day.
It was a perfectly peaceful beginning to a day of giving thanks to God for family and friends and all things that He has given me, both tangible and intangible. As I thanked God for the sky full of stars
that I could see despite the pollution of city lights, I thought about how far our country has drifted from that first Thanksgiving celebration, and I thought about how far our own family traditions have often drifted from the original themes and purposes of Thanksgiving.



History.com provides a great article on the origins of Thanksgiving. I have included a few excerpts from this article below to educate you and give you an idea of what we should be striving for in our celebration of Thanksgiving.


Thanksgiving at Plymouth
In September 1620, a small ship called the Mayflower left Plymouth, England, carrying 102 passengers—an assortment of religious separatists seeking a new home where they could freely practice their faith and other individuals lured by the promise of prosperity and land ownership in the New World. After a treacherous and uncomfortable crossing that lasted 66 days, they dropped anchor near the tip of Cape Cod, far north of their intended destination at the mouth of the Hudson River. One month later, the Mayflower crossed Massachusetts Bay, where the Pilgrims, as they are now commonly known, began the work of establishing a village at Plymouth.

Throughout that first brutal winter, most of the colonists remained on board the ship, where they suffered from exposure, scurvy and outbreaks of contagious disease. Only half of the Mayflower’s original passengers and crew lived to see their first New England spring. In March, the remaining settlers moved ashore, where they received an astonishing visit from an Abenaki Indian who greeted them in English. Several days later, he returned with another Native American, Squanto, a member of the Pawtuxet tribe who had been kidnapped by an English sea captain and sold into slavery before escaping to London and returning to his homeland on an exploratory expedition. Squanto taught the Pilgrims, weakened by malnutrition and illness, how to cultivate corn, extract sap from maple trees, catch fish in the rivers and avoid poisonous plants. He also helped the settlers forge an alliance with the Wampanoag, a local tribe, which would endure for more than 50 years and tragically remains one of the sole examples of harmony between European colonists and Native Americans.
In November 1621, after the Pilgrims’ first corn harvest proved successful, Governor William Bradford organized a celebratory feast and invited a group of the fledgling colony’s Native American allies, including the Wampanoag chief Massasoit. Now remembered as American’s “first Thanksgiving”—although the Pilgrims themselves may not have used the term at the time—the festival lasted for three days. 

Thanksgiving Becomes an Official Holiday

Pilgrims held their second Thanksgiving celebration in 1623 to mark the end of a long drought that had threatened the year’s harvest and prompted Governor Bradford to call for a religious fast. Days of fasting and thanksgiving on an annual or occasional basis became common practice in other New England settlements as well. During the American Revolution, the Continental Congress designated one or more days of thanksgiving a year, and in 1789 George Washington issued the first Thanksgiving proclamation by the national government of the United States; in it, he called upon Americans to express their gratitude for the happy conclusion to the country’s war of independence and the successful ratification of the U.S. Constitution. His successors John Adams and James Madison also designated days of thanks during their presidencies.
In 1817, New York became the first of several states to officially adopt an annual Thanksgiving holiday; each celebrated it on a different day, however, and the American South remained largely unfamiliar with the tradition. In 1827, the noted magazine editor and prolific writer Sarah Josepha Hale—author, among countless other things, of the nursery rhyme “Mary Had a Little Lamb”—launched a campaign to establish Thanksgiving as a national holiday. For 36 years, she published numerous editorials and sent scores of letters to governors, senators, presidents and other politicians. Abraham Lincoln finally heeded her request in 1863, at the height of the Civil War, in a proclamation entreating all Americans to ask God to “commend to his tender care all those who have become widows, orphans, mourners or sufferers in the lamentable civil strife” and to “heal the wounds of the nation.” He scheduled Thanksgiving for the final Thursday in November, and it was celebrated on that day every year until 1939, when Franklin D. Roosevelt moved the holiday up a week in an attempt to spur retail sales during the Great Depression. Roosevelt’s plan, known derisively as Franksgiving, was met with passionate opposition, and in 1941 the president reluctantly signed a bill making Thanksgiving the fourth Thursday in November.

What really sticks out to me about the history of Thanksgiving celebrations is that they were prompted by  times of hardship. The pilgrims suffered unimaginable pain and hardship on their journey to the New World, and upon arriving in this new land, they were faced with the uncertainty of how to survive in an unfamiliar environment. But then, they were blessed to receive help from strangers...the natives. After much instruction and perseverance, they saw a successful harvest and came together with their new found friends to celebrate the blessings that God had heaped upon them.



The next year, when faced with the hardships of a brutal winter, their leader calls for a time of fasting. In the Bible, we are given the example of fasting as a practice that shows our submission to God and our desperation for God to do His work and lend His wisdom to our hearts and our circumstances. I imagine that during this time of fasting, the pilgrims must have remembered how far they had come, how much they had suffered, and how God always cared for them and never let them down. Finally, the trying season ended and they again offered their thanks to God.

In 2 Chronicles 20, we see how the children of Israel dealt with circumstances similar to those that the pilgrims were faced with there first few years in a new land.

 1 After this, the armies of the Moabites, Ammonites, and some of the Meunites[a] declared war on Jehoshaphat. 2 Messengers came and told Jehoshaphat, “A vast army from Edom[b] is marching against you from beyond the Dead Sea.[c] They are already at Hazazon-tamar.” (This was another name for En-gedi.)
 3 Jehoshaphat was terrified by this news and begged the Lord for guidance. He also ordered everyone in Judah to begin fasting. 4 So people from all the towns of Judah came to Jerusalem to seek the Lord’s help.
 5 Jehoshaphat stood before the community of Judah and Jerusalem in front of the new courtyard at the Temple of the Lord6 He prayed, “O Lord, God of our ancestors, you alone are the God who is in heaven. You are ruler of all the kingdoms of the earth. You are powerful and mighty; no one can stand against you! 7 O our God, did you not drive out those who lived in this land when your people Israel arrived? And did you not give this land forever to the descendants of your friend Abraham? 8 Your people settled here and built this Temple to honor your name. 9 They said, ‘Whenever we are faced with any calamity such as war,[d] plague, or famine, we can come to stand in your presence before this Temple where your name is honored. We can cry out to you to save us, and you will hear us and rescue us.’
 10 “And now see what the armies of Ammon, Moab, and Mount Seir are doing. You would not let our ancestors invade those nations when Israel left Egypt, so they went around them and did not destroy them. 11 Now see how they reward us! For they have come to throw us out of your land, which you gave us as an inheritance. 12 O our God, won’t you stop them? We are powerless against this mighty army that is about to attack us. We do not know what to do, but we are looking to you for help.”
 13 As all the men of Judah stood before the Lord with their little ones, wives, and children, 14 the Spirit of the Lord came upon one of the men standing there. His name was Jahaziel son of Zechariah, son of Benaiah, son of Jeiel, son of Mattaniah, a Levite who was a descendant of Asaph.
 15 He said, “Listen, all you people of Judah and Jerusalem! Listen, King Jehoshaphat! This is what the Lord says: Do not be afraid! Don’t be discouraged by this mighty army, for the battle is not yours, but God’s. 16 Tomorrow, march out against them. You will find them coming up through the ascent of Ziz at the end of the valley that opens into the wilderness of Jeruel. 17 But you will not even need to fight. Take your positions; then stand still and watch the Lord’s victory. He is with you, O people of Judah and Jerusalem. Do not be afraid or discouraged. Go out against them tomorrow, for the Lord is with you!”
 18 Then King Jehoshaphat bowed low with his face to the ground. And all the people of Judah and Jerusalem did the same, worshiping the Lord19 Then the Levites from the clans of Kohath and Korah stood to praise the Lord, the God of Israel, with a very loud shout.
 20 Early the next morning the army of Judah went out into the wilderness of Tekoa. On the way Jehoshaphat stopped and said, “Listen to me, all you people of Judah and Jerusalem! Believe in the Lord your God, and you will be able to stand firm. Believe in his prophets, and you will succeed.”
 21 After consulting the people, the king appointed singers to walk ahead of the army, singing to the Lord and praising him for his holy splendor. This is what they sang:
   “Give thanks to the Lord his faithful love endures forever!”
 22 At the very moment they began to sing and give praise, the Lord caused the armies of Ammon, Moab, and Mount Seir to start fighting among themselves. 23 The armies of Moab and Ammon turned against their allies from Mount Seir and killed every one of them. After they had destroyed the army of Seir, they began attacking each other. 24 So when the army of Judah arrived at the lookout point in the wilderness, all they saw were dead bodies lying on the ground as far as they could see. Not a single one of the enemy had escaped.
 25 King Jehoshaphat and his men went out to gather the plunder. They found vast amounts of equipment, clothing,[e] and other valuables—more than they could carry. There was so much plunder that it took them three days just to collect it all! 26 On the fourth day they gathered in the Valley of Blessing, which got its name that day because the people praised and thanked the Lord there. It is still called the Valley of Blessing today.

Wow! What a victory! Look what thankfulness can do! The celebration of Thanksgiving is meant to be a monument to the Lord! A landmark for us to look back and remember all that the Lord has done for us. This is what Thanksgiving is about!



After the Civil War, President Lincoln made Thanksgiving officially a national holiday. Again we see that after a time of severe hardship and the devastation of the war, where brother fought against brother and father against son, the leader of our country was prompted to call for an official celebration of Thanksgiving. I love what Abe Lincoln said as he called the nation to come together in unity once again and give thanks to the Lord. How we need to repeat those words: Lord, heal our nation's wounds!

I can't help but see the shift in focus as we look at FDR's ploy to spur retail sales and boost the economy by moving up the date of the official Thanksgiving holiday. The Great Depression was another time of suffering and hardship, but I wonder how much of it was brought on by our new found dependence on things instead of God!! If I might conjecture, I would say that it was definitely a self-made suffering. Can you see how this dependence on things has spread and deepened over the years!? Can you see the difference in thought here? FDR thought that moving up Thanksgiving would help to fix the nation's troubles, to stop the suffering. The original meaning of Thanksgiving was lost. It had become a commercialized prelude to Christmas, a season of buying, spending, and economical stimulation! 

This year, our country didn't even spend a whole day giving thanks! At 10pm on Thanksgiving evening, stores all over the country opened their doors to offer loads of deals to eager shoppers. What ever happened to being thankful for what little we may have? What ever happened to spending time with our families and thanking God for food on the table, a roof over our heads, and another year of life and breath...no matter how difficult it may have been? What ever happened to being thankful for a Savior, a firm foundation upon which to stand when the rest of the world is shaking?




I must admit, our Thanksgiving celebration was not perfect. We tend to struggle a bit under the influence of our society. We struggle to keep our focus on what is important. Our families celebrate Thanksgiving in much different ways. Some in our family help us to stay focused on what giving thanks is all about, while others promote the image of Thanksgiving accepted by our society. I had hoped that we could remain completely Christ centered this Thanksgiving, but alas, we did get caught up in some of the commercialism. God forgive us!

However, I try to bring myself back to that moment in the early morning hours when I stood under the stars and thanked God for the beauty and for His sweet presence! That is what Thanksgiving is about. Whether or not we celebrate Thanksgiving as an official holiday, we should cultivate gratitude in our hearts toward the Lord of All Creation! He knows what He is doing, and He is in control. For that we can be truly thankful!


I realize that much of this reflection upon Thanksgiving has been critical and negative sounding, but despite all of this critical reflection, I would like to express what a wonderful Thanksgiving it was. We were so blessed to be able to celebrate with our families and enjoy two wonderful meals! 

Here is a glimpse into our Thanksgiving Celebrations: 























Friday, November 18, 2011

Thankful Thursday...On a Friday: Beauty, Truth, and Goodness


Today, I want to stop and reflect on one of the things I am most thankful for...the beauty all around me and the truth and goodness of God that it proclaims!!

Mr. The King and I are so grateful for the beauty of creation. Everyday, we try to make ourselves aware of God's wonderful creation that surrounds us. Whether it is a sunset, a tree, an animal, a baby, or a bolt of lightning, we try to take it all in and allow God to speak to us of His goodness and power through the beauty of what He has created.






We are blessed to live near the Great Smoky Mountains National Park, and we so enjoy visiting the park to hike, camp, take pictures, and reflect on God's power and artistry. Every visit in every season is so different and special. God speaks to us so profoundly as we sit or walk quietly in the mountains, and when we are too busy to make it to the mountains, we yearn for that special time to commune with God in that beautiful peaceful setting.





The Bible tells us that because of all that God created, we have proof of His truth and goodness. So many people in this world do not recognize this truth. They worship the created rather than the creator and they don't give a second thought to God. We are told in Romans 1, that the world has no excuse for suppressing the truth and not thanking or honoring God for what they have been given, because all of creation speaks of His truth.


Romans 1:18-23, 25
 18 But God shows his anger from heaven against all sinful, wicked people who suppress the truth by their wickedness. 19 They know the truth about God because he has made it obvious to them. 20 For ever since the world was created, people have seen the earth and sky. Through everything God made, they can clearly see his invisible qualities—his eternal power and divine nature. So they have no excuse for not knowing God.
 21 Yes, they knew God, but they wouldn’t worship him as God or even give him thanks. And they began to think up foolish ideas of what God was like. As a result, their minds became dark and confused. 22 Claiming to be wise, they instead became utter fools. 23 And instead of worshiping the glorious, ever-living God, they worshiped idols made to look like mere people and birds and animals and reptiles.
 25 They traded the truth about God for a lie. So they worshiped and served the things God created instead of the Creator himself, who is worthy of eternal praise! Amen. 

Wow! That seems a bit harsh, doesn't it? But, it is the truth!! God has made the truth of who He is so obvious to us through the world around us. Even the way our own body works speaks to us of God's awesome power. God has made His invisible qualities so clear, yet we so often can not see Him. We treat the miraculous gift of life as an everyday norm, nothing spectacular. We deny the power of God, we don't thank Him, we don't praise and glorify Him for the marvelous gift of life all around us, and we end up worshiping things instead the Creator of All Things!!


Oh, Lord, lift the veil from our eyes!! Help us to see your beauty, truth, and goodness all around us! Help us to hear what you have to say to us through all that you have created. We say that all things were created for us to enjoy, but actually all things were created to give You glory. May we ascribe to You the glory, honor and praise due to Your name for the gift of life and beauty, and may we see Your beauty, creativity, and power even in a storm cloud. May we never deny Your power and Your authority, but instead be thankful for all that you have done for us and submit to Your will and Your plans for us!



When I was a student at Carson-Newman College, we had a school hymn that was written based on the words inscribed on the school seal: Beauty, Truth and Goodness. This hymn that we would often sang was called, God of Beauty, Truth, and Goodness. I love the words of this hymn and I want to share them with you, as I thank God for the beauty, truth and goodness that He give to us each day


God of Beauty Truth and Goodness

God of beauty, truth and goodness, Lord of wisdom yet unknown
Grant us strength to match the vision, As we come before your throne.
Refrain
Stand for truth and cry for justice, Share with those who don't belong
And remember as you serve them, sing for those who have no song.
Refrain 
Run with faith and live for honor, bearing witness in His call
As disciples, build the future, until Chris is Lord of all. 
Refrain
Make a joyful celebration, God in Christ has conquered death
If you really are a witness, sing until you have no breath. 
Refrain

Refrain:
Sing a joyful Alleluia, Praising God in all You do
And remember as you witness, God is singing over you



Monday, November 14, 2011

Ministry Monday: Back to the Basics

Well, it is Monday again, and I must say that for once, I am refreshed and ready for the week ahead! I credit this amazing victory to the blessing of being renewed and refreshed in God's presence last night. I don't know if we have mentioned it before, but Mr. The King and I lead a Sunday night worship service at our church for our Soul Tribe Student Ministry. It started out as a service for the young people, but we have opened it up to any age, and we feel that it may grow into more of a church-wide Sunday night worship service.

This Sunday night service is a very informal and intimate gathering that we look forward to more and more every week. It feels very different from Sunday morning worship because it is so basic and so FREE. There is a wonderful spirit of liberty and an ability just to let down your guard and open up to the Lord and your fellow believers.

Last night was a particularly liberating and uplifting service. We had a great turn out, powerful worship, and a time of meaningful reflection and meditation on the Word. We read Psalm 92 & Psalm 50. We talked about the offering of thanksgiving to God. We shared what we are grateful for, and we talked about how to live a life of gratitude, giving continual praise and glory to God in circumstances. It was so good to have true communion with one another and with the Lord! 

I believe that we have hit on something very important in our small group of worshipers. We have taken worship back to the basics. On Sunday nights, we have moved closer to the way things were in the early church of Acts. There is a unity and a hunger for communion, and there is an openness and transparency that you rarely find in worship services now days. It's real; it's refreshing; and it's renewing!!

I can't wait to see what God does in this Sunday night gathering and in our local church body as a whole. We our truly moving towards the heart of worship, and getting back to the basics of ministry and our Christian walk. May we not forget to seek Him continually and allow Him to peel back the facade of "church" and religion to reveal a group of true worshipers whose hearts are becoming more and more like His!

Thursday, November 10, 2011

Thankful Thursday: Thankful for Trials


 From the outside, it doesn't look like we have a lot to be thankful for this year. It has been one of the most trying years we have ever had. I have struggled with my health and have been beaten down and battered by stress from every direction. We have dealt with uncertainty and disappointment. We have faced persecution, we have felt alienated, and we have been slandered and lied to! Hmm...this list is starting to sound familiar...

I believe most of the apostles had years much like ours (except for exponentially worse, of course!). They suffered these trials for most of their lives, yet they were joyful and full of thanksgiving. Paul explains this attitude of gratitude in 2 Corinthians 4: 7-18:
 7But we have this treasure in jars of clay, to show that the surpassing power belongs to God and not to us. 8We are afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not driven to despair;9persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed; 10 always carrying in the body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be manifested in our bodies. 11For we who live are always being given over to death for Jesus’ sake, so that the life of Jesus also may be manifested in our mortal flesh. 12So death is at work in us, but life in you. 13Since we have the same spirit of faith according to what has been written, "I believed, and so I spoke," we also believe, and so we also speak, 14knowing that he who raised the Lord Jesus will raise us also with Jesus and bring us with you into his presence. 15For it is all for your sake, so that as grace extends to more and more people it may increase thanksgiving, to the glory of God.  16So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. 17For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison18 as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.
 We can be thankful for our trials because we know that God is working something in us that is beyond our comprehension. It is all a part the cycle of life and death.

 We suffer. We cry out. We die to self. We are rescued by a loving God. He is glorified and lifted up through our life. We are brought to life again, and we are now able to encourage and build up others. It works like the changing of the seasons!


Psalm 50
A psalm of Asaph.
 1 The Lord, the Mighty One, is God and he has spoken; he has summoned all humanity from where the sun rises to where it sets.   
2 From Mount Zion, the perfection of beauty
      God shines in glorious radiance.

  3 Our God approaches,
     and he is not silent.
   Fire devours everything in his way,
      and a great storm rages around him.
 
4 He calls on the heavens above and earth below
      to witness the judgment of his people.
 
5 “Bring my faithful people to me—
      those who made a covenant with me by giving sacrifices.”
 
6 Then let the heavens proclaim his justice,
      for God himself will be the judge.
                         Interlude

 7 “O my people, listen as I speak.
      Here are my charges against you, O Israel:
      I am God, your God!
 
8 I have no complaint about your sacrifices
      or the burnt offerings you constantly offer.
 
9 But I do not need the bulls from your barns
      or the goats from your pens.
 10 For all the animals of the forest are mine,
      and I own the cattle on a thousand hills.
 11 I know every bird on the mountains,
      and all the animals of the field are mine.
 
12 If I were hungry, I would not tell you,
      for all the world is mine and everything in it.
 
13 Do I eat the meat of bulls?
      Do I drink the blood of goats?
 
14 Make thankfulness your sacrifice to God,
      and keep the vows you made to the Most High.
 
15 Then call on me when you are in trouble,
      and I will rescue you,
      and you will give me glory.”
 16 But God says to the wicked:
   “Why bother reciting my decrees
      and pretending to obey my covenant?
 
17 For you refuse my discipline
      and treat my words like trash.
 
18 When you see thieves, you approve of them,
      and you spend your time with adulterers.
 
19 Your mouth is filled with wickedness,
      and your tongue is full of lies.
 
20 You sit around and slander your brother—
      your own mother’s son.
 
21 While you did all this, I remained silent,
      and you thought I didn’t care.
   But now I will rebuke you,
      listing all my charges against you.
 
22 Repent, all of you who forget me,
      or I will tear you apart,
      and no one will help you.
 
23 But giving thanks is a sacrifice that truly honors me.
      If you keep to my path,
      I will reveal to you the salvation of God.”
Thanksgiving is the type of sacrifice that the Lord desires from us. 

Will we choose to be thankful when things are difficult and it doesn't seem like there is much to be thankful for? Will we be thankful for the work that the Lord is doing in us during the tough, trying times? Will we praise Him no matter what? These are the questions I challenge myself with at this time in my life.          

The song, Gratitude, that I will be singing on Sunday reflects what I have been learning about offering a sacrifice of thanksgiving. This song tells us to see the blessing in every trial. I believe that God takes one thing away from us so that He can give us something better. We must remember that his perspective is so different from ours. He sees the whole picture, while we see just a piece. May we not forget that He really does love and care us. So, let us be thankful for everything that He is doing in our life.


Gratitude

Nichole Nordeman


  • Songwriters: Nichole Ellyse Nordeman
Send some rain, would You send some rain?
'Cause the earth is dry and needs to drink again
And the sun is high and we are sinking in the shade

Would You send a cloud, thunder long and loud?
Let the sky grow black and send some mercy down
Surely You can see that we are thirsty and afraid

But maybe not, not today
Maybe You'll provide in other ways
And if that's the case

We'll give thanks to You with gratitude
For lessons learned in how to thirst for You
How to bless the very sun that warms our face
If You never send us rain

Daily bread, give us daily bread
Bless our bodies, keep our children fed
Fill our cups, then fill them up again tonight

Wrap us up and warm us through
Tucked away beneath our sturdy roofs
Let us slumber safe from danger's view this time

Or maybe not, not today
Maybe You'll provide in other ways
And if that's the case

We'll give thanks to You with gratitude
A lesson learned to hunger after You
That a starry sky offers a better view
If no roof is overhead
And if we never taste that bread

Oh, the differences that often are between
Everything we want and what we really need

So grant us peace, Jesus, grant us peace
Move our hearts to hear a single beat
Between alibis and enemies tonight

Or maybe not, not today
Peace might be another world away
And if that's the case

We'll give thanks to You with gratitude
For lessons learned in how to trust in You
That we are blessed beyond what we could ever dream
In abundance or in need

And if You never grant us peace
But, Jesus, would You please

I thank you Lord for teaching me patience as slow and painful as it may be, because I know that ultimately it will result in peace, joy and contentment. 
Lord, even though you have lined my path with difficult people, I thank you because I know that you are teaching me how to love like you.
Although most days my body feels weak and my mind is overwhelmed with stress, I thank you because you are teaching me to trust you and rely on your strength.
Lord, thank you for being my ever present help!